There is a place many of us know all too well. That silent ache inside when you see someone else living the dream you long for, and the whisper rises:
“Why not me?”
It’s such a painful place to be in. It feels heavy, unfair, lonely. Your heart aches not just for what you don’t have, but for the fear that maybe it’s never coming. And in that spiral, comparison feeds despair.
But here’s the truth no one really tells you:
No one having is preventing you from having.
Their blessing is not your block. Their abundance is not your lack.
Life is not rationing joy. The universe is not playing favorites. The only thing standing between where you are and where you want to be is clarity.
Because sometimes what feels like “not happening” is really just the universe waiting for you to be precise — to move beyond vague wishing into clear asking.
It’s not enough to say, “I want a home.”
What kind of home? Where? What does it feel like to wake up there?
It’s not enough to say, “I want love.”
What kind of love? What values matter to you? What kind of partnership makes your soul expand?
This is not about being picky. This is about alignment.
When you bring clarity to your desires, you tell life: I am ready to receive this exact thing. I can hold it when it arrives.
So, the next time you catch yourself sinking into “Why them and not me?”, pause. Take a breath. Remember: their story is not your limitation. Write down your desire. Add the details. Claim it as yours.
Because you are not behind. You are not forgotten. You are simply being invited to step into clarity — and in that space, manifestation becomes not just possible, but inevitable.
Salima
Just me thinking out loud over here