Today’s topic? One that might just shift everything for you if you let it… It’s called Energetic Splits Around Money. You see, money isn’t just numbers. It’s not just transactions or budgeting or strategy.
Money is energy. And the way you think, speak, and feel about money — is constantly shaping what shows up in your life, your bank account, and your desires. In this episode, we dive deep into what I call energetic splits around money. You say you want wealth, but what follows the “but” in your mind? That’s the split. And that split confuses the universe.
This conversation is about calling your energy back. No more contradictions. No more shrinking. It’s time to clean up your money frequency and align fully with your desires.
So, let’s talk about these energetic splits.
Have you ever said something like:
“I want to be wealthy… but I don’t want people to think I’ve changed.”
“I want financial freedom… but I don’t want to work too hard.”
“I want to charge more… but I don’t think people will pay me.”
That, bestie — that “but” — is where your energy splits. You’re placing an order with the universe for wealth, but then immediately canceling it with fear, doubt, or guilt. No wonder your abundance isn’t showing up — you’re not in full energetic agreement with your own desires!
And wealthy women?
They don’t beg the universe.
They align with their desires.
They embody what they want.
They show up like it’s already theirs.
So, let’s clean this up, shall we?
💡 Takeaway 1: Money is a frequency
Money is not just paper. It’s not just numbers on a screen. It’s a vibration, just like joy, peace, or gratitude. When you feel abundant — even before the money shows up — you begin to tune in to the frequency of wealth. And you’ve felt it before. That moment when you walked into a room that smelled like luxury, and something in you straightened up. Or when you listened to a song that made you feel unstoppable — that was you embodying a new frequency. Start your day with intention. Move through life like someone who already knows her worth. The money follows your energy — not the other way around
💡 Takeaway 2: Energetic splits block abundance
Let’s say it clearly: you can’t drive with one foot on the gas and one on the brake.
That’s what an energetic split feels like.
You say you want a six-figure business, but you hide when it’s time to sell.
You say you want freedom, but you people-please and overdeliver out of fear.
You say you’re ready, but secretly you’re waiting for someone to give you permission.
You don’t need permission. You need alignment. Because once your desire and your energy match, the road clears. It’s never really been about effort. It’s been about congruence.One of my biggest energetic splits was unconsciously associating wealth with whiteness. Growing up, the faces we constantly saw attached to wealth, power, and luxury rarely looked like mine. The media, the stories, the success narratives — they reinforced this idea over and over again. So deep down, I began to believe that wealth didn’t belong to someone like me.
Another belief I had to confront was this idea that God specifically chooses who gets to be wealthy. It confused me and created internal resistance. I couldn’t fully accept that my desires were valid or attainable if I thought I hadn’t been “chosen.” These beliefs were never truly mine — they were planted by a world that benefits when we stay small.
Clearing them wasn’t just about making more money — it was about reclaiming my power, my worth, and my right to abundance.
💡 Takeaway 3: The universe responds to clarity
If you’re wishy-washy about your desires, the universe will mirror that. Think of your energy like a GPS. If you type in multiple destinations, your route keeps recalculating.
Clarity is power. And it’s magnetic. Decide. Name what you want. Don’t dilute it with disclaimers or apologies. Say, “I want to be a millionaire,” and mean it — not because you’re greedy, but because you’re ready to circulate wealth in a way that heals, helps, and honors who you are.
💡 Takeaway 4: Check your BUTs
“I want to be rich… but I’m scared people will judge me.”
“I want to raise my prices… but I don’t want to lose clients.”
“I want time freedom… but I still want to be liked and needed.”
Every “but” is a belief contract you’ve signed with lack.
And darling, it’s time to renegotiate.
Journal on your “buts.” Bring them into the light. Ask:
Whose voice is this?
Where did I learn this?
And what would I choose if I didn’t carry this fear?
Your “but” is not the truth. It’s just a placeholder until your power wakes up.
💡 Takeaway 5: You don’t need to know the HOW
Let me whisper this to your inner control freak with love:
The “how” is not your job. Your job is to decide what, and become the version of you who lives there.The version of you who already owns the business, drives the car, speaks on the stages — she already exists. You’re not creating her — you’re remembering her.
So instead of obsessing over how it’s all going to unfold, ask better questions:
✨ What would the wealthy version of me do today?
✨ How would she dress? Speak? Walk into a room?
And then… be her. The how will show up like magic when you become the magnet.
I still remember sitting alone in my room, deep in thought, asking God a powerful question: How can I earn money in my sleep?
I didn’t rush for answers. I sat with the desire. I focused on it. I trusted that a way would reveal itself if I believed it existed. After days of sitting in stillness, something sparked — a memory resurfaced. I had once seen a platform where people made money by renting out their unused homes. It was Airbnb.
And here’s the key part: the moment that idea landed in my mind, I moved. I didn’t wait for everything to be perfect. I didn’t second-guess. I took inspired action immediately.
That was the beginning of shifting from wishful thinking to wealth alignment. When your energy, belief, and action meet — magic unfolds.
💡 Takeaway 6: Wealth is not selfish
This is one of the deepest energetic splits many women carry.
The idea that more for me must mean less for others.
But love — the opposite is true.
When good women have money, the world becomes softer.
Kids get fed. Schools get built. Art gets made.
Mothers get to rest. Voices get amplified. Generational wounds get healed.
Wealth in your hands is a prayer answered.
Never forget that.
💡 Takeaway 7: Your brain is powerful
Bestie — you are already a powerful creator. Every single thing in your life today was once a thought, a decision, a belief. So, if you could manifest survival… If you could manifest resilience, relationships, or even chaos…
You can also manifest wealth, joy, and overflow.
Start telling a better story.
Instead of “I’m bad with money,” say, “I’m learning to trust myself with money.”
Instead of “I never have enough,” say, “Money flows to me in miraculous ways.”
Your subconscious listens. And it builds your life around the stories you repeat.
💡 Takeaway 8: You get to rewrite your money story.
Let’s end on power.
No matter what your childhood taught you… No matter what your culture, religion, or past experiences imprinted on you… You get to choose again.
You can stop romanticizing struggles. You can stop identifying with “the girl who always has to fight.” You can be soft and successful.
You can rest and receive. You can be a vessel of wealth — simply because you exist.
So. today, make a new choice: What is the money story, are you ready to retire?
And what is the wealthy woman story you’re ready to live?
Because you, my love, are not too much.
You are the blueprint.
And your abundance is your birthright.
Salima
Just me thinking out loud over here